The 'I' in lyf..!!

"Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option..!!"

I tend to get philosophical at times.. So, bear with me..!!

Right from the very start throughout our life, we tend to or rather more or less do things just to please others...while the whole point of one's life is to live for him/herself..!!

Throughout this ordeal thats life, we meet ppl , like them, kind of idolize dem n pretty much tend to do nethin to please them..!!
Now thats the way us humans are... Its our tendency n no one can change dat..!!
well, if the feelin is reciprocrated its wonderful.. I mean, its the best thing that can happen to neone..

But if u jus turn out to be a fall-back option..ther is no point in pursuin the matter ne further..The essential 'I' that is ur entity goes missing...Self-centered ppl say, I say one must be self-interested..!! Compromise and control hold the key to keepin one's emotions in grip and letting the 'I' be the focus of life, rather than ending up as a hopeless romantic..!!

Live for thyself, not for the society or worse still an other individual..!!

N by society i mean the ground rules one must follow no matter what..!! Helping the society is an altogether different aspect. Neither does that really signify a 'selfless soul' coz the happiness one derives from it is a ulterior motive or the driving spirit behind the whole effort..!! Joy is wat all of us are looking for.. isnt it?

Thats abt all for now..!!